06-10-2009, 10:41 AM
If your schedule is as structured as you say it is I wouldn't rearrange anything for her unless you commit to doing something specific. If she still flakes out on you after specific plans I wouldn't spend another minute with her. Phrases like "I would love to see you after your basketball game" are noncommittal for a woman, you can ask 10 different women what it means and probably get 10 different answers. You might want to distance yourself from the situation a bit and see how she reacts, if she just continues on "business as usual" without much reaction to not spending as much time with you than you may also get your answer.